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What I Wish I knew before Moving Abroad

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Moving abroad can be daunting and at the same time exciting. Even after moving to three countries over the past years there are things I wish I knew before moving abroad. Here are some tips that I have learned along the way and that can hopefully aide you for your upcoming international move.

1. It can be a Headache finding somewhere to live

Mobing Abroad

Finding housing can be a challenge and sometimes even a nightmare. Prior to leaving I would check out Facebook groups for accommodation, get in touch with agencies and reach out to your network that you are on the search for housing. Try to do what you can before coming over. However, keep in mind that some cities like Paris or London can only do so much in advance. Viewings, meeting potential flatmates, showing financial statements or making offers can sometimes only be done in person.

2. You will Feel Lonely at Times

Feeling Lonely is What I Wish I knew before Moving Abroad

As soon as I dropped my mom off at the airport I felt the pit of loneliness sink in. I cried on the tube ride home and continued to do so all night after I locked myself in my room. Frankly, it will take some time getting used to being in another country other than your own. The truth is that you may eat some meals alone, navigate the city without help but this is okay and part of the process! I find that solo exploring, getting exercise and heading out to meetup events really helps with overcoming loneliness better.

3. Sometimes Skype & Whatsapp won’t Cure Homesickness

I’m so thankful for this day and age where we have platforms that give the us the opportunity to speak with our loved ones when we are far from home. However, video calls really don’t cut it sometimes. It can all feel very overwhelming especially when missing out on special events like the holidays. Remember that this all part of being an expat and feeling homesick is inevitable.

4. You’ll be your Country’s International Representative

Moving Abroad

No matter where I travel the world once people find out where I’m from, some have the tendency think I know everything there is to know about the US. And this is fair to some extent because no matter what country you visit to others from the host country will be perceived you as the unofficial ambassador. I understand others asking me about the current political issues, our health system, social manners, etc. However, you will also hear judgements and generalizations that may be positive or negative. Please remember to always be respectful and courteous.

5. Study the Language Intensively

Obviously you should try and learn the language beforehand but I say intensively for a reason. It can feel pretty frustrating when you have official documents to sign and cannot read them or need to communicate with someone like your doctor or landlord and they do not speak your language. Being able to understand a bit of the local language or communicate with others can help you feel more integrated and may make the transitioning process much more easier. Try to enroll in a language class, Skype with a language buddy or just consistently self-study before and after you arrive.

6. You may Become a Minimalist

It’s not very likely that you will bring your whole life with you when moving abroad. While it sounds nice it is: 1 too expensive, 2 not very practical and 3 very stressful. Moving your favorite couch could cost up to thousands to send over and if you’re relocating within the next year, what is the point? I learned the hard way to only bring the essentials. Since I relocated so frequently I was not able to pack all my belongings and ended up giving them away, selling them or throwing many in the bin! It’s just not practical to pack everything you own because it will literally and figuratively weigh you down.

7. Moving Abroad is Totally Worth it

MOVING ABROAD IS WORTH IT
Moving abroad is worth it

During this journey (especially at the beginning) you may question whether this was the right choice to make. Moving abroad has been one of the most challenging and rewarding experiences in my life. I’ve experienced different ways of life, met amazing people and developed great contacts, increased my language skills, been pushed out of my comfort zone countless times, have grown personally and professionally and the list goes on.

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19 comments
  1. Krysten Quiles says:
    June 5, 2020 at 4:30 pm

    My husband and I have a dream to more to Puerto Rico, so this is pretty helpful. Thank you!

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  2. Marie Phillips says:
    June 6, 2020 at 3:51 am

    What an incredible opportunity! And all of these points were perfect. It is awesome that you have been able to enjoy this experience.

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  3. Shishira & navneeth, the backpacksters says:
    June 6, 2020 at 4:35 am

    all these 7 points are so accurate. and yes, its all worth it at the end! šŸ™‚

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  4. Papa Jack says:
    June 6, 2020 at 9:41 am

    I feel you. I agree with your point of view. It is so important to consider before migrating abroad.

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  5. catherine santiago jose says:
    June 6, 2020 at 2:35 pm

    Nice point of view and I agree with everything you’ve said. You really have many things that need to consider when living or migrating abroad.

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  6. Bea Maureen says:
    June 6, 2020 at 2:42 pm

    Thank you for sharing! I’ve never moved abroad but i admit, sometimes it has indeed crossed my mind. i’m happy you didn’t regret your decision! stay safe always

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  7. WorldInEyes says:
    June 6, 2020 at 3:53 pm

    Totally agree with all of your points and ideas….Moving to a different country is somehow exciting but it is also much surprising..😁..Great work..loved it…

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  8. Celebrate Woman Today says:
    June 6, 2020 at 6:15 pm

    Living in a different country with its own cultural and social rules, laws, traditions make it an ultimate experience for those who wish to experience life in its richness. I applaud you for taking this step and widening your life’s experiences while enriching yourself and the people around you, too.

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  9. Rhonda Albom says:
    June 6, 2020 at 10:18 pm

    Yes, I have found all of this to be true. And even though I moved to a country that speaks the same language, there are still nuances and idiomatic expressions that will catch you off guard.

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  10. Fabulous Perks says:
    June 7, 2020 at 3:54 am

    Aww, sorry felt like that. My little cousin went aboard for school. She’s adjusting very well, i’m sure had her moment.

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  11. kumamonjeng says:
    June 7, 2020 at 11:28 am

    I think this area is still better to adapt to new places as technologies made us closer. Having frequent skype is certainly another way to connect.

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  12. chad says:
    June 7, 2020 at 2:12 pm

    I’ve been moving around since I was in my 20s. You’re right it has its disadvantages and struggles but I love the excitement of it.

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  13. Rosey says:
    June 7, 2020 at 2:36 pm

    There are a few places I would have considered moving abroad once upon a time. I think the experience alone Is worth the challenges. šŸ™‚

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  14. Esther says:
    June 8, 2020 at 1:14 pm

    That’s awesome that you had the opportunity to live in various countries. It’s never easy to make the move, but few regret it. myself included. thanks for sharing

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  15. Shelley Whittaker says:
    June 8, 2020 at 3:24 pm

    I totally agree with all of your points here. We relocated from Australia to the UK 3 years ago. It has been such an incredible experience, and to be honest I have only started to feel lonely / homesick since the covid-19 outbreak. I would highly recommend the EXPERIENCE to anyone who is up to the challenge, especially if it is for less than 12 months. In my opinion, you really have nothing to lose!

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  16. tweenselmom says:
    June 9, 2020 at 8:38 am

    Moving abroad has crossed my mind once in a while and i really didnt know what to expect when i’ll go for it, thank you for telling us what it feels to move abroad! This has helped me become more informed and prepared šŸ™‚

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  17. Erin says:
    June 10, 2020 at 5:10 pm

    Great points! I’m thinking/hoping to do this soon, so you’ve given me some good points to consider!

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  18. Elizabeth O says:
    June 16, 2020 at 3:51 am

    It’s really hard to move to another places and country. Homesickness can kill us. Lol! Missing our place you grew up in. But You said its really worth it.

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  19. Olufunke Kolapo says:
    June 16, 2020 at 8:36 am

    It is so nice to learn that it is worth it. Because I’m just considering moving. Thanks for.the tips, I’m glad I found them.

    Reply

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