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7 Habits I Picked Up After Moving to the Netherlands

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The Dutch way of life is definitely different from what I’ve experienced living in the US, UK, and France. Approaching my first official year residing in Dutch land, here are some of the interesting habits I picked up after moving to the Netherlands.

Complaining about the Weather

I’m originally from Los Angeles and the daily forecast is typically 70F and sunny with blue skies. My daily attire ranged from sundresses with flip flops to t-shirts and a skirt. With such perfect weather, there is not much to complain about (except when it rains those 3x during the year). So you can imagine after moving from sunny SoCal to the Netherlands: where it can rain, hail, be windy and then sunny in a matter of ten minutes, how quickly I was to open my mouth and start complaining. Many Dutchies told me I was slowly integrating because discussing the weather and talking about how crap it is, is actually a normal thing to do.

The Dutch even have different words for describing horrid weather like zeikweer (when it softly rains for hours on end, of the whole day-nagging weather). I noticed I picked up this habit when moving here, but who wouldn’t complain when you have to cycle to work and there is a bucket of water coming down your face. I’m with the Dutch on this one! 

Tosti’s for Lunch

I have a hard time with this one because in the states we call this a grilled cheese that contains butter on the inside and outside and grilled. In my opinion, the tosti and grilled cheese are totally different styles in which I can easily taste the difference. A tosti can be defined as two pieces of bread with cheese in the middle that is heated in a toaster or tosti maker. It’s comfort food for the Dutch that can be eaten for breakfast, lunch, dinner, or a snack! When I’m in a rush or don’t have much time or inspiration I will make a tosti for a bite. It’s quick, easy and a habit that I don’t intend on giving up because I love Dutch kaas (cheese).

Drinking more Coffee

When I say more I’m not exaggerating. Out of the world’s countries that consume the most coffee the Netherlands is number 5! In fact, coffee is a big part of Dutch culture with the Dutch drinking an average of 4 cups per day. The favorites range from koffie met melk (coffee with milk), met suiker (with sugar), cappuccinos, or the most popular just straight up black! I love all my flavored coffees, frappuccinos, and specialty lattes back home but zwarte koffie (black coffee) without ANY sugar is something I’ve had to get accustomed to. My coffee consumption has definitely skyrocketed while living here. The Netherlands used to be one of Europe’s leading coffee suppliers and the presence of coffee is still strong and present in the culture. Koffie can be had at any time, nearly anywhere here and I can’t believe I drink it after dinner now.

Riding a Bike Everywhere

the weather is an interesting habit

Cycling is the most convenient mode of transport and the easiest way to get around. Out of a population of 17 million, the Netherlands has a sum of more bikes than people at 23 million. Whether it’s to work, the store or to visit a friend. I cannot imagine leaving the house without taking my bike anymore.

Being More Direct

Being more direct is a habit I picked up in the Netherlands

In Europe, they say that Americans tend to beat around the bush. While we tend to be more positive in our conversation, living here makes my verbal communication much more straightforward, aka cut through the bs. Being more direct is just one of the habits I picked up after moving to the Netherlands.

3 Kisses on the Cheek

3 kisses on the cheek is a habit I picked up after moving to the Netherlands

Dutch people greet each other with three kisses. I got accustomed to 2 kisses after living in the UK and France but always forgot the 3rd when arriving in the Netherlands. However, this is only with close friends and family and now I never forget to do so! 

Put Mayo on Fries

Putting mayo on my fries is a habit I picked up after moving to the Netherlands

I can’t believe mayo and hot sauce were my go-to! The Dutch love mayonnaise and every time you order fries mayo will accompany it! It’s rich, creamy, a bit tangy, and way better than what they serve in the states. The fries here are also a thicker cut and crunchy on the outside while soft on the inside. Mayonnaise compliments Dutch fires well and because of this I never put ketchup on my fries anymore!

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18 comments
  1. Ambuj Saxena says:
    August 17, 2020 at 6:00 pm

    I love the habits you have picked up in Netherlands. A new place gives you a new way of living life and I’m glad you are picking up the good things… hey what’s that sound from outside… zeikweer!!!

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  2. Gervin Khan says:
    August 18, 2020 at 11:37 am

    You had such unique experienced there. I like the ‘riding the bike’ one because it looks fun! And also, I never knew that you can put mayo on fries! This is all new to me, how interesting.

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  3. Krysten Quiles says:
    August 18, 2020 at 12:00 pm

    I can get down with all of these EXCEPT the mayo on the fries. I just cannot do that!

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  4. Emily Fata says:
    August 18, 2020 at 2:39 pm

    After returning from the Netherlands for the first time in 2012, I also started to put mayo on my fries! It’s so delicious, I couldn’t just stop after returning home to Toronto haha

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  5. Crystal Green says:
    August 18, 2020 at 3:59 pm

    I have always used ketchup and mayonnaise on my fries. I have yet to try the combination that has come out because I’ve always made my own. I haven’t tried it with hot sauce, but now you got me wanting to try it.

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  6. World in Eyes says:
    August 18, 2020 at 4:29 pm

    oh wow well these all defines that it wasn’t much easy for you..well sounds quite interesting and lovely one..glad you shared your experience with us..great work though..

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  7. joanna says:
    August 18, 2020 at 4:59 pm

    I love the Dutch sauces for fries. My favorite has to be the peanut butter and raw onions combination, so good! I can imagine the weather in the Netherlands is not that great, so it’s a reason to complain about. Same over the channel, here in the UK.

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  8. MELANIE EDJOURIAN says:
    August 18, 2020 at 5:18 pm

    I thought tosti’s and grilled cheese sandwich were the same. I’d eat both either way. I have to try one with Dutch cheese now!!!

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  9. Bella says:
    August 18, 2020 at 10:17 pm

    Ahh everything looks amazing, I have always wanted to go. Looks so prefect. MAYO AND fries are life

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  10. Marie Phillips says:
    August 19, 2020 at 2:29 am

    These are some great habits, except for maybe the mayo on the fries one, lol. Except for the weather, I think I would like it there. I wish we did more on our bikes in America.

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  11. chei says:
    August 19, 2020 at 5:34 am

    These are great habits. I love the bike everywhere and fries with mayo. Thank you for sharing your wonderful experience.

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  12. tweenselmom says:
    August 19, 2020 at 6:45 am

    Mayo and fries omg! Also it seems like there’s a lot of nice things to do there, looking forward to visiting there sometime! Thanks for sharing this interesting article with us!

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  13. Rosy says:
    August 19, 2020 at 6:07 pm

    It’s really interesting to see people picking up a variety of habits by living in different cultured countries.

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  14. Sarah S says:
    August 19, 2020 at 8:02 pm

    The idea of mayo on fries blows my mind! Going to have to try that!
    Love the concept of being more direct and riding a bike everywhere too!
    Great post!

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  15. Kathy Kenny says:
    August 20, 2020 at 3:52 am

    Mayo on fries and coffee sounds good!

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  16. Lyanna Soria says:
    August 20, 2020 at 5:03 pm

    Those are quite interesting habit you’ve acquired indeed. Sounds like a great place to visit someday. When I visited Vietnam years ago, I too picked up the habit of riding around in a bike and I quite enjoyed it.

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  17. Kiwi says:
    August 21, 2020 at 1:31 pm

    Thats great you can ride your bike everywhere. I want to try a Toasti

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  18. Trina Welch says:
    September 11, 2020 at 2:43 pm

    The Netherlands is definitely on my list to visit!

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